Reminders for a working wife

Alright… I understand that you are busy and you don’t have much time.  So let us make it quick and straight to the point.

Even if you are working, you’re still a mom and a wife all at the same time.  You’ve got to weigh things down and keep everything in balance.

Here I outlined three simple reminders for working wives like us.

Don’t forget who you were from the start

Remember your old self. Who were you from the beginning?

Your old self had the qualities that your partner loved about you from the start.  If you had lost your sense of self, your partner might find you changed.

Sometimes, when we are too busy, we forget ourselves and our roles and responsibilities as a wife.  Don’t think that because you are a busy person you are exempted from being a good wife. No, oftentimes, what we need is to go back to that “old brand new self” that you were once before and bring that loving spark to life once again.

Reward and pamper yourself once in a while

How’s your hair? Your nails? Your make-up?

It doesn’t mean that because you’re married you would forget good grooming.

Do you think your partner would like to see you looking like you haven’t washed your face for centuries?

Although relationships are more than just physical appearance, it is also important that you care for yourself and therefore you are capable of caring for others.

Rewarding yourself after doing such hard work is not really an indulgence, it’s something that you deserve!

Common, it feels good when you look good!

Keep growing

At this point, I hope you have mastered something that would identify you as your trade.  If you haven’t mastered yet, then, at least you’re learning and you’re getting better on that something.

Empowered women simply know what they are doing. People look up to them because they have something to share.  If you haven’t found your trade yet, better start reflecting on what you want to do in life. Remember, know yourself first so you could start growing and don’t stop learning.

Warning!

Now you are empowered, you look good, you have your trade, and you are confident with yourself.  It is not impossible that men other than your partner would get attracted to you. I hope you would remember that you are already a wife to someone. And I wish your empowerment yield the fruit of faithfulness in you.

God bless you, mighty women!