Women today are not bounded to the four corners of a house anymore. Like men, women are now having careers and are as busy.
However, no matter how busy we are, we should give time for these five things.
I am a working mom and I have four children.
I am working hard for them but if working hard means losing
them, what’s the point of this hard work?
Our children do not need our work, they need our time.
Make it a point to spend quality time with them.
Our time spent with them is a treasure they cherish. It opens communication wider and
understanding our children better.
Still be a good wife
So because you’re working, you’re tired.
But remember, you’re also a wife.
Do not put your love story aside, don’t forget your man.
We might be busy all day, but never neglect your
responsibility as a wife. (This one is true for husbands, too.)
Once you forget that you’re a wife (or a husband) after all,
you start losing the magic of marriage.
Be as charming as you have been. Enjoy your dates like you did before.
Kindle the love.
Take time connect
with friends and loved ones
You might not reach where you are now without people behind
you.
Our friends and relatives might not demand time as much as
our kids, but we should pay tribute for them once in a while.
Chat with them. Send greetings. Keep in touch.
The world could have been so cold without them.
Give yourself a break
When everything seems to be choking you, give yourself a
break.
Sometimes, what we need is a little pause so we could find
the best solutions.
If nothing works out fine, then take a short break and get
back on it later when you have freshen up.
Do not suffocate yourself with impossible tasks all at once.
Take your time. It’s your choice.
Reward yourself
At the end of the day, when you have beaten yourself for
that hard work, reward yourself.
It’s just like giving yourself a break, only that it does
not concern about time alone but of something more.
Why not go out for that ice cream flavor you haven’t tried?
Or treat yourself on a salon? This could make you a beautiful, refreshed wife
and mom, you know.
Do something to yourself like what you did before.
Being a wife and a mom doesn’t mean that you have totally
lost yourself.
Be a shining wife and mom by simply being you.
Lavish yourself because after all, you deserve to be
rewarded.
And especially if no one recognizes your hard work,
recognize the good things you have done.
Sometimes, the world is too busy for itself that we have to
take care of ourselves entirely.
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